Enabling Effect

Anyone who has a close relationship with an alcoholic, will try to protect him or her. You would think that standing by the ones you love would be the right thing to do, but remember, an alcoholic is not the typical person. 

By protecting the alcoholic, you are actually enabling them to continue on the path of alcoholism. You are telling them that they are not doing anything wrong and they can continue to believe that they are independent.

With denial still intact, the alcoholic can progress into alcoholism with the help and feed of an enabler.

It is not until an alcoholic hits rock bottom, when he has no more support from friends and family, that they can finally admit that their is a problem. Enablers, simply stand in the way and prolong this admittance.